Second, and more interesting given the themes of The Coquette, is the novel's association with the "seduced and abandoned" story line, a story line common to sentimental romance novels. The seduced-and-abandoned story is fairly simple: a young woman is seduced by an unscrupulous man (sometimes older, usually wealthy or at least having some social status); she believes his promises of love and marriage, gets pregnant, is cast aside (the abandoned part) and lives out the rest of her life in moral ruin. If she's lucky, she dies, though death in these novels functions as a moral judgment. The purpose of these novels, as you can probably guess, was cautionary, specifically to warn young women to keep their skirts on (literally and figuratively) until they could make a proper, moral marriage. Yes, I know--why are the women getting stuck with these expectations? Why isn't anyone telling the men to keep it in their pants? The simple answer is that culturally (including American culture) women had long been regarded as the moral and spiritual centers of the family and of society. A ruined woman threatened the stability of the family, and consequently, threatened the stability of the society in which she lived. Often a religious justification would be offered for this--if Eve had just been a carnivore, none of this would have happened. The subtext of all this, of course, is that the ones best served by these perceptions were men. It would be ridiculous to assume that men consciously conspired to invent this notion--as with most cultural values, this evolved over time. Nevertheless, the seduced-and-abandoned model, to get all Marxist on you, was a cultural production that served to secure power with the dominant members of a culture.
The Coquette - James Wells Champney
However, I don't think it's quite so easy to say that Foster fits comfortably into this design, and that perhaps is what makes her novel worth considering. What strikes me about this novel is not so much that Eliza is "irresponsible" in the conventional ways that we understand that term, but that she lives within a society that has no means to accommodate someone like her. She lives in a society that defines relationships in rational terms; note how Mr. Boyer, who just oozes excitement, speaks about how he will pursue his courtship of Eliza: "I am in no danger, however, of becoming an enthusiastic devotee [of Eliza]. No, I mean to act upon just and rational principles." Fair enough--but Eliza's society deems him the appropriate choice, despite that fact that he bears little in common with Eliza, who, as the man who will seduce and ruin her writes, is "apparently thoughtless of every thing but present enjoyment."
Illustration from The Art of Home-Making, by Margaret E. Sangster
To ask the question to get the discussion started, is whether this novel is a critique of rationality. We've talked in other places about the significance of the concepts of reason and rationality in the development of individualism, but have not talked about potential dangers that lie in a culture devoted to reason. I also wonder whether this novel is less a critique of the moral character of Eliza Wharton, and more a critique of a culture that can find no place for someone like her.

When Eliza's fiancé, Mr. Haly, dies, the path of courtship is once again opened for Eliza. Two men come out on top, vying viciously for her love. One is a charming, extravagant man named Major Sanford with a reputation of questionable morality. The other is a boring reverend named Boyer who wants to get married to a cheerful person like Eliza. The two men are opposites in terms of fun and morals. Eliza finds herself attracted to both, but more towards the charming Sanford. However, her mother and friends constantly warn her about Sanford's libertine nature and pressure her to reject Sanford for Boyer. In reality, none of the men are right for Eliza. Both men profess their "love" for Eliza, but Boyer is marrying for the wrong reason, and Sanford does not even intend on marrying Eliza (she's not rich enough for him). You'd think that Eliza would then be the one respectable character in the novel because she doesn't bend to all the pro-Boyer pressure but instead wants to marry Mr. Right, even if it means waiting a bit longer to make sure she gets the decision right. Of course, all this waiting is torturing the two suitors. After some dramatic events, Eliza ends up single and the two men married off to other women. Depressed, she practically throws her life away.
ReplyDeleteSome may say the message of this novel is simple: Stay away from deceptive men like Sanford and you'll avoid Eliza's fate. I think the novel is much deeper than that. Ultimately, it is a criticism on the sexist ideologies that were present in the culture at the time and is even present today. The modern-day analogy to Eliza's situation is the unplanned (and usually teenage) pregnancy. Our society places an unequal burden of guilt on the female. When things like this happen, eyes are almost always turned on the female rather than the male. I agree with what Professor Bodziock states about expectations for women where are these expectations for men?
I think what Foster does quite well in The Coquette is apportion interpretation to each reader. This story comprises something for every appetite. She mollifies her male audience by pointing to the latent peril awaiting women who choose to mislay their “virtues,” while at the same time pandering to her female reader’s with the (justifiable) demonization of Sanford. What is subtle, but most important, is the underlying quandary of women that Foster exposes; that is-- their self supposed irrelevancy unless attached to men; notwithstanding those who are uninspiring or repulsive. Likely, the audience for that particular message had not yet amassed.
ReplyDeleteThe point that the novel reflects an attitude that women are irrelevant unless attached to men is an excellent one. Eliza's comments about the nature of marriage (e.g., "Marriage is the tomb of friendship. It appears to me a very selfish state.") are mind-boggling to her peers and elders, who cannot conceive of a woman existing meaningfully outside of the bounds of marriage. While the surface rationale would have spoken to the different characters of men and women (women were irrational, therefore needing the firm, guiding hand of a rational male to navigate life), the underlying reasons would have been the sexist ideologies Barb mentions, ideologies that turned on economy and power. Simply put, power lay in the hands of men because they controlled the money. That's why those seeking to liberate women from the limitations of domesticity constantly harped on economic independence. A woman without money had few, if any, choices. But a woman with money....
ReplyDeleteI also want to point out that actually few men would have read this novel. Much of the reason was because novel-reading was considered a female thing (since they had the time to read extended narratives, and since, as irrational creatures, they were naturally drawn to romance). Men would read non-fiction. If they read imaginative literature, it would usually be poetry.
In view of Foster's prior knowledge and claim that this novel was founded "on fact," I tend to believe that this novel was a critique on a culture that could not accommodate someone as free spirited as Eliza Wharton, and which lent more importance to financial stability than affection. Her friends and family would rather have her unhappily married to an elderly clergyman -- or any clergyman (Boyer) than Sanford, who is in effect another free spirit, and not wealthy, either, which is his greatest offense in the eyes of society. Lucy Freeman, like the others, wants Eliza to "lead down the dance of life with regularity" -- what could sound more boring to a vivacious young woman whom fate has already freed from a dour life as a clergyman's wife? Both Eliza and Sanford are caught between the practical and the impractical. Eliza wants to follow her heart; Sanford must follow his head and marry into money. Both eventually follow their hearts, with tragic results. Interestingly, in her letter to her mother, Eliza says she has "become a reproach and disgrace" to her friends and removes her self from them. The implication is that she now believes she will be better off dead ("the serenity and composure with which she bid a last adieu to the world"). It seems to me that Eliza, after the fact, has imposed the double standard on herself; while she was advised against the irrational act, she is pitied, not condemned, and becomes a sort of martyr in the end. It's not life with or without Sanford that condemns her, it's her own perception of ruin, based on the warnings of others. But her people appear to have very different feelings once the act is committed and revealed. Even though they both committed adultery -- both sinned against God and Sanford's wife --it's Sanford who is described as the "wretch." His own irrationality in two cases -- marrying for money when he loved elsewhere and seducing Eliza -- have defeated him. But, had he NOT done the rational thing, not married for money but married Eliza -- they might have been poor but perhaps the tragic circumstances might have been avoided.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Barb that the novel's underlying theme deals with the sexist ideologies of the time period. It illustrated the social problems through the character and perspectives of Eliza's own life and dilemmas. Although those are the ultimate effects of the story I think that throughout it Eliza seems a bit naive. She tries to justify all of her actions at first, at one time she states her behaviors are ,"effusions of a youthful, and cheerful mind(pg 1343)." I found that to be typical for the theme that is being demonstrated.
ReplyDeleteI see this story as a commentary on how women were not valued in society. A woman’s worth was chiefly based on her dependence and connection to a man (unless she had her own wealth and then she risked being used solely for her money). I think Eliza’s parents acted rationally based on the culture of the time and there was no room for silly romantic emotion when their daughter’s future was at stake.
ReplyDeleteAlthough Eliza recognized that she and Mr. Haly were not suited, she admits that “both nature and education had instilled into my mind an implicit obedience to the will and desire of my parents.” When we learn that Eliza died in her 37th year, it is easier to understand why her parents were so anxious for her to wed Mr. Haly. As Eliza grew older her marriage prospects may have been dwindling and her parents were probably desperate to see their daughter safely married. They knew she needed the protection and financial support of a man and with Eliza’s free spirit they also probably worried about her becoming pregnant. Mrs. Richman seemed sincerely concerned when she encouraged Eliza to choose Mr. Boyer “as he has a prospect of being.” When Eliza balked at settling down, Mrs. Richman told said, “Here we can repose in safety.” Mr. Boyer would have been the rational choice for Eliza based on societal expectations, but feelings ruled instead and led her to become involved with Mr. Sanford.
Cheryl, Good point about Eliza's age and her parents' related concern. I was surprised when the text said she died at 37; I had assumed her to be younger.
ReplyDeleteI'm interested in building on a couple of comments here about rationality. As Cheryl notes, Eliza's parents "acted rationally," which I take to mean that they acted without impulse and through a carefully contrived belief that they could control their actions and their choices. Earlier, Teri suggests that Sanford's mistake is in acting rationally--which here I take to mean actions based on mind rather than heart. So first I gather that folks are seeing this text as something of a critique of rationality as the sole or primary determinant in the choices one makes.
ReplyDeleteFair enough. What interests me is something I think is implied in Cheryl's statement and more overt in Teri's comment: that love lived in poverty is a reasonable (note I'm avoiding the term "rational") choice, more reasonable than security without love. This idea ties to a common trope in American literature and culture, what I call the "romance of poverty"--that somehow money corrupts relationships, and that poverty is emotionally and morally a better state of being. (I did not choose the second image in my original blog post out of serendipity or desperation.) Clearly money, or lack of it, is an ideological value in Eliza Wharton's world. But why do we tend to think that a lack of money somehow will morally transform a relationship for the better? There's a lyric from an American song form the early 20th century that goes:
"Every morning Every evening
Ain’t we got fun
Not much money Oh but honey
Ain’t We Got Fun
The rent’s unpaid dear
We have’nt a bus
But smiles were made dear
For people like us."
But then, as John Lee Hooker sings,
"Your love give me such a thrill,
But your lovin' don't pay my bills."
As women moved toward becoming more independent and thinking for themselves, they became unwilling to accept arranged marriages. I think that, in the 1800s as now, many young people were idealistic: "love conquers all." I know I had that experience, married at 18 against my parents' wishes, not because I had to but because I wanted to. We've been married 27 years -- and we've made it work. Many of my friends went to college first, married in better financial circumstances -- we envied them -- and they are now divorced. A higher income would be nice (why else would I be going to college at this age?) but I tell this to make the point that the decision on whether to be happy in a marriage -- rich or not-- (or in most circumstances) is up to the individual. I'm not sure that has changed so much since Eliza Wharton's time.
ReplyDeleteSometimes people have fond recollections of the days when they were just starting out and did not have much, but I think those memories are not always crystal clear. Within a very short time being poor becomes quite tedious and absolutely no fun.
ReplyDeleteChoices made on the basis of emotion (a/k/a love) are not necessarily rational. Mr. Sanford was a bum who married simply for his wife’s money and I do not think he would have been a rational choice for Eliza. If he had decided to forego the wealth of the heiress and marry Eliza, Mr. Sanford and Eliza would probably not have been happy. They were both too fond of frivolous pursuits and a life of poverty would have most likely made them quite miserable. Mr. Sanford thought his choice of wife was rational but instead it was a fraud. He never loved the heiress or cared about her – it was only greed.
Teri - You are indeed lucky that you found just the right person. I believe people can be quite happy without money - but Eliza probably probably wasn't one of them. I saw your posting after I had entered mine and I didn't want you to think I was commenting personally on your situation. Congratulations on 27 years!
ReplyDeleteCheryl-- I thought after I posted that I should have said that I'm one of the lucky ones-- I wouldn't recommend being married that young; "making it work" doesn't mean it's not difficult, regardless of the era. And again, it comes down to the individuals.
ReplyDeleteAs for Eliza, I tend to agree; for that "individual" reason. If she had reached her mid-30s and was still so immersed in frivolity, she might not have been satisfied with Sanford and no more parties. And Sanford wanted the best of both worlds; he didn't have the strength of character to choose Eliza and not the money. So yes, I think love and poverty CAN go together, but in the case of this particular story, they might not have.
I thoroughly enjoyed reading such a unique style of novel in the letter format. It was intriguing to see all the different perspectives from the characters who encounter Eliza Wharton. I agree with what Barb said: “Our society places an unequal burden of guilt on the female. When things like this happen, eyes are almost always turned on the female rather than the male.” And women literally carry the guilt around with them. Men have nothing to prove that they did the deed. How unfair is that?
ReplyDeleteEliza Wharton seemed like an oddball and I admired her strong ideals. She explained to everyone that she simply wasn’t in love and awkwardly avoided all opportunities to discuss it with the men. She seemed simply to enjoy the company of men who were only interested in making her a wife. Eliza represented the handful of women who didn’t fuss over money or marriage at that time. This made it all the more saddening when she so suddenly went downhill and eventually died. I hadn’t even noticed, until Cheryl pointed it out, that Eliza was already 37 years old. Both back then and today, this would sometimes be considered “a little late in the game” to still be single.
The issue of money corrupting relationships really had me thinking. I agree with the notion that it truly depends on the individual and his or her particular circumstance. It is risky to make a generalization that money destroys all hope for love or that love will withstand all poverty. I like Teri’s point that, perhaps, doing the irrational thing would have allowed for a happier ending for Eliza. Maybe just succumbing to Sanford’s original profession of love could have saved her all the trouble.
On a closing note: I find it interesting that Peter Sanford talks about Eliza being his “property” as a wife, yet says it is he who will be “shackled” in a marriage (page 1348). If he, as the man, is in control of the relationship, how can he be tied down?
I do not necessarily think lack of money so much "morally transforms relationships," but rather, affords the opportunity to better fortify them because it removes the complexities that wealth often leads to. We touched on some of these principles in our studies of Puritanism which of course is grounded in their religious beliefs and as we know the bible often uses parables to speak of the "evils" of money,and how to foil them. I think money can be problematic in relationships specifically because it breeds arrogance, and often does not facilitate us being humble,which I think is imperative in any successful relationship. However,as other classmates have suggested,I do not think Sandford would have been a proper choice for Eliza; regardless of their respective economic statuses.
ReplyDeleteEliza was not an average girl for her time. She had certain principles that she thought were right and stuck to them. I don' think that she was ready to have another man in her life so she avoided it. Things that should have matter to a woman before marriage (money being a big one) didn't matter to her. She wanted someone who loved her the same way she loved them.
ReplyDeleteI wouldn't say that this is a critique of rationality in the sense of what rationality is, but rather how significant or insignificant it is. It seems quite clear through the story what is rational - a stable, wealthy, respectable marriage. This idea seems to be sustained by all of the characters. Even our off beat Eliza knows that a marriage or man like that is the "rational" choice. However, she doesn’t want the rational choice (Boyer) and that’s the problem. I think the conflict the story presents is, If where your heart lies is irrational (in Eliza’s case, with Stanford) - does it matter that it’s irrational? Or even, is it still irrational then? If a rational choice can lead to an unsatisfactory life or even downfall, then what does that say about that society?
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